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Anne Bercht, author
"My Husband's Affair Became the Best Thing That Happened to Me"

 

Healing From Affairs Weekend
Specialized Help for Couples Healing From Affairs

"Healing From Affairs " Marriage Weekend

Next Seminar:
December 5 - 7, 2008 - Dallas, TX - There are still spots available for this weekend.
Registration Deadline 30 days prior to each seminar start date!

Future Scheduled Dates:

February 13 - 15, 2009 - Tampa, Florida
May 15 - 17, 2009 - Perth, Australia
May 22 - 24, 2009 - Melbourne, Australia
August 14 - 16, 2009 - Location TBA
November 6 - 8, 2009 - Location TBA

We offer you HOPE for the future!

Listen to the Nov. 4 - 2008 teleseminar with Brian and Anne! Two other couples also candidly share their experiences of healing their marriages after an affair. Also some excellent down to earth questions from people "in the trenches" of trying to heal after an affair. Real people. Real problems. Real answers. Listen Now!

Listen to the tele-seminar on how to heal from an affair - Oct. 22-2008 - This call features Tim & Julie who are almost 100% healed from the affair in their marriage. Also Guy and Tammie share, who are 3 years beyond his affair. Learn about how to tell the truth, how much truth to tell, and when, and lots more!

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Click here to listen to interviews with couples who have attended

Is your marriage broken?

Disclosure of an extramarital affair sends any marriage into a tail spin. It’s devastating for everyone involved, including the children, and the rippling negative effects usually include your job, physical health and finances.

Pulling out of this spin is one of the hardest things you’ll ever do, and many couples never make it because they don’t have proper guidance or the skills. It’s especially difficult, because both spouses hurt tremendously, but in very different ways.

Our Healing from Affairs Weekend is specifically designed for couples struggling to heal from the trauma of an affair.

Unfortunately many couples never really heal, because they never deal with the affair, why it happened and what will be different in the future to ensure it doesn't happen again.

"Brian and I are more in love and stronger than ever after Brian's affair in 2000. I have no more pain attached to the memory of the affair. Candidly we will take you through the processes required for genuine healing." - Anne Bercht

If you’re the betrayed spouse the pain is so intense, you often feel you cannot breathe, and just performing routine tasks, like driving kids to school, can feel insurmountable. You feel like you’re losing your mind, you can’t think straight, and you’re wracked with questions and feelings of disillusionment. How from this place can you possibly begin to make sound decisions and heal?

If you’re the one who had the affair, you may feel confused. You may feel no one understands you or even cares to try. You’re sorry for what you’ve done. You love your spouse. You’re committed to your marriage. You’ve said you’re sorry. What more can you do? Why can’t your spouse just get over it? You feel no good can possibly come from rehashing this horrible deed over and over.

How do two hurting people who love each other, yet are experiencing so much pain put it all back together?

Have you wondered …

  • Why did this happen?
  • What will be different in the future to ensure it doesn’t happen again?
  • How can we quit fighting and start moving forward?
  • Why doesn’t my spouse understand me?
  • Why doesn’t my spouse seem to care what I’m feeling?
  • Why doesn’t my spouse listen to me?
  • How will I ever feel good about myself again?
  • How can I forgive? Be forgiven?
  • How do we rebuild trust in our marriage?
  • How do we re-establish a fulfilling sex life?
  • How does someone overcome the obsessive thoughts and painful triggers?
  • What it was you loved about your spouse in the first place?

We can help you find the answers to all these questions during the Healing From Affairs Weekend. Now there is a way to restore your marriage and your love, fully, in a shorter time, and with less agony.

"Thank you Brian for talking so candidly and frankly about why things like this happen and for giving us a view into your brain. You have helped me to understand my husband and helped to explain how and why this terrible thing could have happened to us." - J.M., Coquitlam, British Columbia

During this weekend you’ll learn how to …

  • Talk about painful issues without hurting each other
  • Understand why your spouse acts the way they do
  • Understand why you act the way you do
  • Forgive
  • Overcome obsessive thoughts
  • Process anger in healthy ways
  • Rebuild trust
  • Rebuild self-esteem
  • Get past the incredible sadness
  • Build a renewed relationship based on openness and honesty
  • Break negative cycles
  • Reestablish love, intimacy, honor and respect
  • Discover the number one key to incredible sex
  • Ensure an affair never happens in your marriage again

Locations & Costs

Date: December 5 - 7, 2008 in Dallas
Cost:
$2495 per couple
Location: Embassy Suites Hotel, Dallas, TX
2401 Bass Pro Drive, Grapevine, TX, 76051

(shuttle service available from Dallas Fort Worth International Airport)
Register today to hold your spot!
Seminar begins Friday, December 5th at 2 pm - concludes Sunday, December 7th at 4 pm.

Healing From Affairs Weekends include:
2 nights hotel stay
2 breakfasts
2 lunches
Managers special: drinks/light snack at 4 pm

Coffee breaks

Seminar manuals
10 free group coaching follow up sessions by phone
One private 1-hour coaching session with Brian and Anne

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"The only reason I agreed to attend the Healing From Affairs Weekend with my wife was the fact that Brian Bercht had worked in construction, and even then I was pretty skeptical. I’m not into therapy, seminars, counseling or long drawn out touchy feely stuff. Just give me the bottom line. The weekend experience was positive and different from what I expected. One of the most valuable parts was being able to hear from others who’d had affairs and talk about the challenges we face trying to put this whole thing behind us. If you need to heal your marriage after an affair, don’t waste your time dragging this whole thing out. Just get to the Healing From Affairs weekend, get the issues dealt with, and reap the rewards of reconnecting with your spouse, being respected and trusted again, and keeping your family together."
- T.A., Construction Contractor, Monroe, Washington

You will not be put on the spot or asked to share things publicly.

This seminar is not about someone being labelled as a bad person.

It is so refreshing to be with people who understand in a safe environment.

Our participants come from all over the United States and Canada. Everything is handled in a safe, confidential and discreet manner.

You can struggle along on your own, or take a short cut. You don't need healing to be anymore painful or to take any longer than it already will.

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Healing From Affairs Seminar - $2495.00 US funds per Couple + 5% sales tax

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Our Guarantee

We are so sure this seminar will help you, we guarantee it.
Register and participate fully in all sessions and if at the end of the seminar you feel this experience was not of value to you, we will gladly refund your money.

Healing From Affairs - Testimonials!

"We really appreciated Brian and Anne’s real and practical approach to Healing From Affairs. It was exactly what we needed. We contacted them within the first week of finding out about my wife’s affair, and have been able to heal much faster than other couples. We combined coaching with attending all 3 of Brian and Anne’s seminars. It’s now been one year since the day of disclosure, and both my wife and I feel we’ve been able to fully heal from the impact of her affair on our marriage." - G.C., Auto Mechanic, Abbotsford, British Columbia

"After my affair one of the areas I struggled most with was reconnecting sexually with my husband. I couldn’t really understand it then, but my guilt made me feel nervous and I just couldn’t enjoy sex with my husband the same way as before. I really appreciated Anne and Brian’s practical and candid teaching on sex. They clearly weren’t afraid to talk about it, at the same time I felt it was handled in an appropriate, professional and comfortable manner. (I loved the humor and the opportunity for questions and discussion.) As a result of what we learned, my husband and I were able to be patient and communicate openly about sex with respect for each others real feelings and desires. This has helped us to get our great sex life back. Thank God! In the past, I had been taught that as they get older, women don’t enjoy sex anymore. I really didn't believe this, but growing through my struggles, I was afraid it may be true. Anne has helped me to see, this isn’t true. It’s about your husband learning how to connect with your heart, and as a woman learning to be comfortable with your sexuality, not ashamed. I don’t think anyone can put a price tag on being truly forgiven by your spouse after an affair, and truly healed and restored in every way, and being able to talk and be understood by your spouse in deeper ways. Attending Brian and Anne’s weekend marriage seminars has helped us to heal, deepened our love, increased our understanding of each other, and left us with valuable relationship skills. I’m just glad we did it while we were still young. We have so many years ahead to enjoy a fulfilling life together." - D.C., Fitness Trainer, Abbotsford, B.C.

“The Healing from Affairs Seminar saved our marriage! After reading Brian & Anne’s book, both my husband and I had a glimmer of hope, that maybe we could also heal, and one day have an even stronger love on the other side of the pain.

"The weekend proved to be a deeply touching experience for both of us, one we would never trade. It brought to the surface core issues and dealt with them, and most importantly we left with a “tool box” full of relationship skills to keep our marriage on track.

" I felt relief because we were finally able to deal with all the things I was hurting about. Listening to Brian share helped my husband to see what he needed to do and why he needed to do it. Brian and Anne’s interactive presentation styles really held our interest. We were never bored. There was constantly something that both my husband and I could relate to.

"It’s been 6 months since we attended, today I’m able to do things and handle things I know I wouldn’t have been able to if hadn’t learned what I did. My husband and I have made a decision to attend a weekend seminar with Brian and Anne once a year. Our experience with them has been invaluable! ”
- B.A., Office Manager, Monroe, Washington

“The weekend with Brian & Anne was well worth the travel, time and money it took to get there.  They both as a couple and as individuals bring a sincerity of purpose and a genuine love for others in the room which translates into a tremendous power to transform lives. 

They bring personal experiences and direct insights based upon willingness to share whatever it takes to help others.  They invite you into their lives and let you know that this seminar is so much more than a transaction.  The authenticity and genuineness is just something one must experience.  It will enrich and change your life together forever.”
– R.H., Manager of Leadership Development, Ann Arbor , Michigan

"Anne and Brian have been a God send in our lives. The pain and things I’d endured in my life had left me a broken woman. I believe that God sent them into my life to help with my journey as I found this web-site while I was researching.  After reading Anne’s book and corresponding with her, I knew my husband and I had to attend one of their weekends.We’re so glad we did. We’re fairly fresh in our journey, and we still have a way to go, but now I know we’re going to make it.

"During the weekend my husband and I reconnected in loving ways that gave us both hope for the future, that the love we share is one that’s worth restoring, that I can forgive, heal, trust, and be happy again.

"I also learned the importance of having fun along the way. Our lives had been too full of responsibility and challenges. The things we learned and the practical way they presented were so valuable, that we want our married adult children to attend thier Love & Passion weekend as well." – P.H., Photographer, Ann Arbor, Michigan

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“After 36 years of marriage, I found myself caught up in an affair. I loved my wife, but I also loved the thrill of my experience in the affair. I stood teetering on the edge of losing the most important things in my life, and I didn’t even realize how close I was. In some ways I feared giving up the affair and recommitting to my marriage. I didn’t know if my wife would ever be able to get past the affair, and I didn’t know if I’d ever be able to experience with my wife, some of the fun I’d experienced in the affair.

"My wife suggested that I read Anne and Brian’s book pretty much at the final stage of our marriage. The book gripped me from start to finish and reading it helped me to see what I was doing more clearly. What really helped me was the balanced point of view from both Brian and Anne. Brian’s feelings and thoughts were very similar to mine: I saw me, in Brian, I understood. The book gave me the vision and hope that I could have the love and life I always wanted to share with my wife. I broke off the affair after agreeing with my wife to give it a real go.

"Next step was how to get there. I was not comfortable going to someone who has never been there before. We decided to go to aseminar wit h Brian and Anne. I was very nervous and a bit scared.

"Attending Brian & Anne’s seminars (we’ve been to all 3), has helped me to see and deal with my issues. They have helped me become a better man, given me the communication tools and help to make the decisions that were right for me. As a result, I have received forgiveness from my wife, have her trust and respect again, and now she listens to and understands and acts on the things that are important to me. Together we’re building new memories and having more fun than ever before.

"For me the seminars were comfortable places to be. Anne and Brian’s experiences and education into the topic put you truly into a comfort zone. It is OK, you are not the bad guy, you have hope and a future, you have fears.

"Everyone in the seminar has their own story, it can be private, or open, no pressure. Everyone has a common goal and everyone is in a different stage of healing. In the seminars you make great friendships, you have people supporting you, cheering your marriage on. You can be open and honest in the right climate. You get the right tools to work on your marriage. You learn who you are in a very fun way."
- B.T., Retired, Okanagan British Columbia

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“After reading other books, I can honestly say that “My Husband’s Affair …” is the best one I have came across! It is a powerful and moving 360 view into personal lives, written from the heart, and a book that can help anyone navigating an affair; but also beneficial for affair prevention. This book gave me hope for the future. When my husband read the book, he was finally able to choose the path that was right for him, staying in our marriage. Destiny is about choice and this book definitely helped us to make the right choices.

"Then together we attended all 3 seminars. We enjoyed the presentation style; always open, honest, comfortable, and professional, as well as entertaining and fun. Each seminar provided us with tools to help us move forward in positive ways and has greatly enhanced our relationship.

"When our adult children learned of the affair they were devastated. They, like us are slowly healing and it is helpful for them to see the positive steps we are taking. We want them to take Anne and Brian’s relationship seminars as well. Anne and Brian’s seminars have been the best investments we could make for our relationship. They’ve helped us heal much faster and move forward into a truly happy and passionate marriage.” L.T., Retired, Okanagan British Columbia

Listen to recorded telephone seminars

A one hour interview with two couples who have dealt with the devastation of an affair in their marriage. Tim & Diana, Greg & Daphne, share their stories. - July 17, 2008

 

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If you have questions, please don't hesitate to send an email to info@beyondaffairs.com or call 604-859-9393.

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