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Healing From Affairs - Testimonials!
Wow what a difference a weekend can make !
The Healing From Affairs Weekend has changed our lives forever. It seems like we have been dealing with the left over's from my affair - forever and I had pretty much given up hope that things could or would get better but .... they did, they really did ! The changes ' feel ' permanent, my heart is lighter than its been in years!
Brian and Anne give ALL of themselves and in exchange they saved our marriage.
ALL the mentor couples were amazing in their willingness to bare their souls and in doing so, made us all feel safe. Feeling safe made being completely open a source of tremendous healing.
I was one of those that was hesitant to attend and had I chose not to, I would have missed the most important weekend of my life.
- Mark G, Chicago, IL
I am trying to find the words that can describe this feeling of gratitude that has been with me since my husband and I left the workshop last Sunday night in Atlanta.
If I was a poet I could truly give you a description of this feeling of deep and forgiving love that I carry for my husband now. My wish was to find some freedom from the obsessive thoughts of the past and I believe that I had a miraculous break through with your loving guidance during the workshop.
I know that there is still so much more healing to go but now I am not as afraid because I know that there is such a thing as "Divine Timing." I am secure in knowing that each new day pushes the mistakes of the past further and further away from my brain and replaces it with thoughts of forgiveness and compassion.
- JG, Chicago, IL
"The only reason I agreed to attend the Healing From Affairs Weekend with my wife was the fact that Brian Bercht had worked in construction, and even then I was pretty skeptical. I’m not into therapy, seminars, counseling or long drawn out touchy feely stuff. Just give me the bottom line. The weekend experience was positive and different from what I expected. One of the most valuable parts was being able to hear from others who’d had affairs and talk about the challenges we face trying to put this whole thing behind us. If you need to heal your marriage after an affair, don’t waste your time dragging this whole thing out. Just get to the Healing From Affairs weekend, get the issues dealt with, and reap the rewards of reconnecting with your spouse, being respected and trusted again, and keeping your family together."
- T.A., Construction Contractor, Monroe, Washington
"We really appreciated Brian and Anne’s real and practical approach to Healing From Affairs. It was exactly what we needed. We contacted them within the first week of finding out about my wife’s affair, and have been able to heal much faster than other couples. We combined coaching with attending all 3 of Brian and Anne’s seminars. It’s now been one year since the day of disclosure, and both my wife and I feel we’ve been able to fully heal from the impact of her affair on our marriage." - G.C., Auto Mechanic, Abbotsford, British Columbia
"After my affair one of the areas I struggled most with was reconnecting sexually with my husband. I couldn’t really understand it then, but my guilt made me feel nervous and I just couldn’t enjoy sex with my husband the same way as before. I really appreciated Anne and Brian’s practical and candid teaching on sex. They clearly weren’t afraid to talk about it, at the same time I felt it was handled in an appropriate, professional and comfortable manner. (I loved the humor and the opportunity for questions and discussion.) As a result of what we learned, my husband and I were able to be patient and communicate openly about sex with respect for each others real feelings and desires. This has helped us to get our great sex life back. Thank God! In the past, I had been taught that as they get older, women don’t enjoy sex anymore. I really didn't believe this, but growing through my struggles, I was afraid it may be true. Anne has helped me to see, this isn’t true. It’s about your husband learning how to connect with your heart, and as a woman learning to be comfortable with your sexuality, not ashamed. I don’t think anyone can put a price tag on being truly forgiven by your spouse after an affair, and truly healed and restored in every way, and being able to talk and be understood by your spouse in deeper ways. Attending Brian and Anne’s weekend marriage seminars has helped us to heal, deepened our love, increased our understanding of each other, and left us with valuable relationship skills. I’m just glad we did it while we were still young. We have so many years ahead to enjoy a fulfilling life together." - D.C., Fitness Trainer, Abbotsford, B.C.
“The Healing from Affairs Seminar saved our marriage! After reading Brian & Anne’s book, both my husband and I had a glimmer of hope, that maybe we could also heal, and one day have an even stronger love on the other side of the pain.
"The weekend proved to be a deeply touching experience for both of us, one we would never trade. It brought to the surface core issues and dealt with them, and most importantly we left with a “tool box” full of relationship skills to keep our marriage on track.
" I felt relief because we were finally able to deal with all the things I was hurting about. Listening to Brian share helped my husband to see what he needed to do and why he needed to do it. Brian and Anne’s interactive presentation styles really held our interest. We were never bored. There was constantly something that both my husband and I could relate to.
"It’s been 6 months since we attended, today I’m able to do things and handle things I know I wouldn’t have been able to if hadn’t learned what I did. My husband and I have made a decision to attend a weekend seminar with Brian and Anne once a year. Our experience with them has been invaluable! ”
- B.A., Office Manager, Monroe, Washington
“The weekend with Brian & Anne was well worth the travel, time and money it took to get there. They both as a couple and as individuals bring a sincerity of purpose and a genuine love for others in the room which translates into a tremendous power to transform lives.
They bring personal experiences and direct insights based upon willingness to share whatever it takes to help others. They invite you into their lives and let you know that this seminar is so much more than a transaction. The authenticity and genuineness is just something one must experience. It will enrich and change your life together forever.”
– R.H., Manager of Leadership Development, Ann Arbor , Michigan
"Anne and Brian have been a God send in our lives. The pain and things I’d endured in my life had left me a broken woman. I believe that God sent them into my life to help with my journey as I found this web-site while I was researching. After reading Anne’s book and corresponding with her, I knew my husband and I had to attend one of their weekends.We’re so glad we did. We’re fairly fresh in our journey, and we still have a way to go, but now I know we’re going to make it.
"During the weekend my husband and I reconnected in loving ways that gave us both hope for the future, that the love we share is one that’s worth restoring, that I can forgive, heal, trust, and be happy again.
"I also learned the importance of having fun along the way. Our lives had been too full of responsibility and challenges. The things we learned and the practical way they presented were so valuable, that we want our married adult children to attend thier Love & Passion weekend as well." – P.H., Photographer, Ann Arbor, Michigan
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“After 36 years of marriage, I found myself caught up in an affair. I loved my wife, but I also loved the thrill of my experience in the affair. I stood teetering on the edge of losing the most important things in my life, and I didn’t even realize how close I was. In some ways I feared giving up the affair and recommitting to my marriage. I didn’t know if my wife would ever be able to get past the affair, and I didn’t know if I’d ever be able to experience with my wife, some of the fun I’d experienced in the affair.
"My wife suggested that I read Anne and Brian’s book pretty much at the final stage of our marriage. The book gripped me from start to finish and reading it helped me to see what I was doing more clearly. What really helped me was the balanced point of view from both Brian and Anne. Brian’s feelings and thoughts were very similar to mine: I saw me, in Brian, I understood. The book gave me the vision and hope that I could have the love and life I always wanted to share with my wife. I broke off the affair after agreeing with my wife to give it a real go.
"Next step was how to get there. I was not comfortable going to someone who has never been there before. We decided to go to aseminar wit h Brian and Anne. I was very nervous and a bit scared.
"Attending Brian & Anne’s seminars (we’ve been to all 3), has helped me to see and deal with my issues. They have helped me become a better man, given me the communication tools and help to make the decisions that were right for me. As a result, I have received forgiveness from my wife, have her trust and respect again, and now she listens to and understands and acts on the things that are important to me. Together we’re building new memories and having more fun than ever before.
"For me the seminars were comfortable places to be. Anne and Brian’s experiences and education into the topic put you truly into a comfort zone. It is OK, you are not the bad guy, you have hope and a future, you have fears.
"Everyone in the seminar has their own story, it can be private, or open, no pressure. Everyone has a common goal and everyone is in a different stage of healing. In the seminars you make great friendships, you have people supporting you, cheering your marriage on. You can be open and honest in the right climate. You get the right tools to work on your marriage. You learn who you are in a very fun way."
- B.T., Retired, Okanagan British Columbia
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“After reading other books, I can honestly say that “My Husband’s Affair …” is the best one I have came across! It is a powerful and moving 360 view into personal lives, written from the heart, and a book that can help anyone navigating an affair; but also beneficial for affair prevention. This book gave me hope for the future. When my husband read the book, he was finally able to choose the path that was right for him, staying in our marriage. Destiny is about choice and this book definitely helped us to make the right choices.
"Then together we attended all 3 seminars. We enjoyed the presentation style; always open, honest, comfortable, and professional, as well as entertaining and fun. Each seminar provided us with tools to help us move forward in positive ways and has greatly enhanced our relationship.
"When our adult children learned of the affair they were devastated. They, like us are slowly healing and it is helpful for them to see the positive steps we are taking. We want them to take Anne and Brian’s relationship seminars as well. Anne and Brian’s seminars have been the best investments we could make for our relationship. They’ve helped us heal much faster and move forward into a truly happy and passionate marriage.” L.T., Retired, Okanagan British Columbia
Listen to recorded telephone seminars
Click here to listen to the June 23, 2010 teleseminar
- How can you know for sure if the affair is over?
- How can you trust again?
- How can you ever feel safe and secure again?
Click here to listen to the June 14, 2010 teleseminar
- Should you stay or should you go?
- setting healthy boundaries & giving ultimatums
- What do you do if the betrayed spouse wants to end the marriage, but the betrayer does not?
Click here to listen to the June 7, 2010 teleseminar
The essential keys to rebuilding a marriage with Tim & Diana Journy
Click here to listen to the June 3, 2010 teleseminar
Click here to listen to the May 25, 2010 teleseminar
This call is discussing "Forgiving Yourself." This call will mostly be focused towards; how we as betrayed spouses might forgive ourselves. Do we even need to forgive ourselves? After all we didn't have the affair! Some betrayed spouses tell me they have a hard time forgiving themselves for not really confronting issues sooner.
Click here to listen to the May 17, 2010 teleseminar
Question/Answer session
1. What do you do when your unfaithful spouse won't admit anything & keeps lying?
2. Does the unfaithful spouse always morn the loss of the affair? Are they lying if they say the other person didn't mean anything to them?
3. How do you reconnect sexually? How do you get the mental images of your spouse with another person out of your head? Are you being compared to the other person? Wasn't the other person better that my spouse would risk losing everything to be with them? How do you get past the sexual performance anxiety?
- And more ...
Click here to listen to the April 14, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Greg & Daphne share their story. She had the affair. This couple healed their relationship incredibly quickly. Find out the secret to their expedited healing. (It takes about 4 minutes for this call to get going. In the first 4 minutes there is a lot of static, which is corrected 4 minutes in. Feel free to fast forward slightly.)
Click here to listen to the March 15, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Dan & Laura share their story. He took months after disclosure to end his affair. She followed her heart and hung on to their love, when everything else said quit. Find out how together they beat the odds.
Click here to listen to the March 11, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Tim & Diana share their story. Find out how a soft woman applied tough love and it became their turning point.
Click here to listen to the March 3, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Tim & Julie share their story. He cheated with a friend of hers.
Click here to listen to the February 26, 2010 telesemiar
How do you motivate your husband to talk?
Click here to listen to the February 24, 2010 teleseminar
This is a Question/Answer session. All questions were from betrayed spouses. Many of them, their unfaithful spouses were not doing the right things to help heal the marriage, and some were working to heal alone.
Click here to listen to the February 23, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Guy & Tammie share their story of how they healed their marriage after his
affair. Could a controlled separation be the right choice for you?
Click here to listen to the February 22, 2010 teleseminar
The topic of discussion is Tiger Woods confession
Click here to listen to the February 16, 2010 teleseminar
Questions addressed in this teleseminar include:
How do you love and respect yourself for staying?
How do you deal with repeat affairs and broken promises?
My spouse left their affair partner and moved back home. How come I don't feel better?
We are not dealing with our underlying issues. How do we get this turned around?
Does your spouse think of their affair partner, while having sex with you?
What do I do when my spouse says I just need to choose to "get over it?"
My spouse ended their affair and promised it will never happen again. Why do I still hurt?
Are lie detectors a good idea?
Is it true that once a cheater always a cheater?
Click here to listen to the November 10, 2009 teleseminar
This is one of our best teleseminars. It is 2 hours long and includes lots of interaction and relevant affair recovery questions from participants.
Click here to listen to the November 2, 2009 teleseminar
How do you know if there's hope for your marriage to heal?
(Please note: the teleseminar begins recording as soon as 2 or more participants have accessed the call. Sometimes this is before Anne & Brian have dialed in. This teleseminar takes a couple of minutes to get going. You may want to fast forward just slightly.)
Click here to listen to the October 29, 2009 teleseminar
How to talk to each other without causing further damage to your relationship
(Please note: the teleseminar begins recording as soon as 2 or more participants have accessed the call. Sometimes this is before Anne & Brian have dialed in. This teleseminar takes a couple of minutes to get going. You may want to fast forward just slightly.)
Click here to listen to the September 24, 2009 teleseminar
A Road Map for Recovery: For couples struggling to heal their marriage after an affair.
Hear from both sides! What are the needs of both the one who had the affair, and the one who has been injured?
Click here to listen to the July 30, 2009 teleseminar
On this call we discussed ways to deal with obsessive thoughts and triggers.
Click here to listen to the July 28, 2009 teleseminar
Listen to an interview of a couple where the unfaithful husband took a long time to give up contact with his affair partner, but still, in time, they were able to heal their marriage.
-Find out why it was so difficult for the husband to give up his affair
-What finally brought about the needed changes
-How did the wife cope
Click here to listen to the July 22, 2009 teleseminar
Listen to 2 couples candidly share their stories of how they healed,
when the wife was the one who had the affair.
Click here to listen to the June 30, 2009 teleseminar
This call focus's on helping the spouse who had the affair,
and is working towards healing the marriage.
What it takes for the one who had the affair to heal?
What are the struggles those who've had affairs face?
What can be done to move beyond those struggles?
What is the unfaithful's role and responsibility in healing?
What steps can the unfaithful spouse take toward healing the marriage?
Questions like: Will my spouse ever forgive me?
Click here to listen to the June 17, 2009 teleseminar
How can you separate or divorce with dignity?
How do you deal with an affair, if the betrayed spouse ends up with a life-threatening STD as a result?
Can you regain love for your unfaithful spouse if you don’t feel it anymore?
Why doesn’t my unfaithful spouse initiate conversations to help with healing the affair?
Should an affair be kept a secret and dealt with privately, or is this approach damaging for the relationship? When the unfaithful spouse says “I love you, I’m just not in love with you,” what's really going on?
Why is it more difficult to heal if the affair has been kept a secret for years?
How do you deal with your children during affair recovery?
How do you trust/rebuild trust again?
and more questions answered!
Listen to the May 27, 2009 teleseminar
Guy & Tammie talk about finding your own journey through your healing.
They also talk about how truth, time and separating the "person"
from the "behaviour" was their keys for healing.
Listen to the May 26, 2009 teleseminar
Tim & Diana share their story of how giving up the pain was their road to healing.
Click here to listen to the April 21, 2009 teleseminar
2 couples, Tim & Diana, plus Tim & Julie, are interviewed by Brian and Anne. They candidly share their experiences - how they healed their marriages after an affair.
Listen to the January 22, 2009 teleseminar - Brian & Anne answer live questions!!
Listen to the January 20, 2009 teleseminar - Brian & Anne share the 9 Important Keys to Healing a Marriage After an Affair.
Listen to the Dec. 23 - 2008 teleseminar! Hear from Jeff & Mary and Jack & Karen, couples who have attended the Healing From Affairs weekend in December 2008. Find out what they have to say about the weekend, and hear first hand some of the things they've learned through their own healing experiences, and what they wish they would've known and understood much sooner.
Listen to the Nov. 4 - 2008 teleseminar with Brian and Anne! Two other couples also candidly share their experiences of healing their marriages after an affair. Also some excellent down to earth questions from people "in the trenches" of trying to heal after an affair. Real people. Real problems. Real answers. Listen Now!
Listen to the tele-seminar on how to heal from an affair - Oct. 22-2008 - This call features Tim & Julie who are almost 100% healed from the affair in their marriage. Also Guy and Tammie share, who are 3 years beyond his affair. Learn about how to tell the truth, how much truth to tell, and when, and lots more!
A one hour interview with two couples who have dealt with the devastation of an affair in their marriage. Tim & Diana, Greg & Daphne, share their stories. - July 17, 2008
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