Save Yourself Time, Mistakes and Agony
Anne and Brian saved our marriage. Without their positive help, in some very low times, we may not have made it. They both gave us such an honest and fair perspective of the affair healing process. It was my wife that had the affair, so it was very helpful for me to get a guys perspective of why? And vice versa for me with Anne, she was able to relate to me as the betrayed spouse and my wife as a woman. We worked with them via phone for 6 months and in person on a few occasions. It has been just over 2 years since our D DAY, and I can say without any doubt…OUR marriage is better today than it was before the affair!! Anne and Brian continue to inspire us with their marriage and support.
Sean – Tsawwassen BC
First, the bad news…
It's not easy and it's not instant. Generally affair-recovery experts agree that it takes a minimum of 2 years to heal from an affair. The time it takes depends primarily on the kind of affair facing you and the route and strategies you take in resolving the affair. What you do will either help you move faster or slow you down. Ultimately it doesn't matter how long it takes, it matter that you do heal, and that you're continually moving forward ... not stuck.
Here's the good news…
We've seen some couples heal in as quickly as a year. With great respect for our colleagues and people we've had the priveledge of learning from who've been doing this a lot longer than we have (we've only been doing this for 3 years), we've sat back and wondered, how can this be? Are we missing something? We have, however, noticed a common denominator among those couples who are healing so quickly ... they are the ones who've gotten our help very soon after disclosure.
More good news…
The affair in your marriage is an opportunity. Really! You are given (rather painfully) an opportunity to learn about you and the relationships in your life. You are given the opportunity to thoughtfully and intentionally redesign your life and love relationship. You will never be the same. And, do you really want to go back to what was?? (Anne thought she wanted her old life back at one point – but no longer!)
As personal coaches, Anne and Brian offer something no PhD toting "expert" can: they have walked the walk, and advice comes from experience. They have a unique ability to draw others out of their hurt, and to plant seeds of personal growth. Their passion to reach out and help others is felt in each and every session. - H.W., Vancouver
What You Need
But, this just doesn't happen! It probably won't happen if you go it alone. You need input. You need support. You need new information. And, primarily, it is very important to have someone walk along with you, encourage you and show you new roads.
This is where the importance of having your own coach emerges.
Coaching starts with you and your situation. You work with the coach to find the strength and strategies you need to do exactly what is best for you and those closest to you.
Telecoaching: Coaching takes place over the telephone. You and the coach schedule a 50 minute consultation over the phone.
It's simple. It's convenient. It's easy. It's confidential.
Working with a coach may help you move through the affair more quickly, avoid the mistakes others make on their own, boost your self-esteem, make you feel better and help you get the life and love relationship you truly want.
Coaching in Person with Brian and/or Anne
If you live in the Lower Mainland of British Columbia, Canada or will be visiting Vancouver, Canada you can book your personal coaching appointment in person with Brian and/or Anne at their office in Abbotsford, British Columbia.
Here's what you do...
Simply call our office at 604-859-9393 to schedule an appointment or send us an email firstname.lastname@example.org When booking your appointment be sure and specify whether you desire to see Brian & Anne together or only one or the other.
After an initial consultation Brian and Anne will design a unique program specifically suited to your needs, to take you from where you are, to where you want to be.
Our goal is to empower you, point you in the right direction and give you the skills to heal your life and relationship ... and to take your marriage to the next level. We want you to join the many happy couples whose once hurting marriages have become amazing success stories.
We look forward to helping you heal, get beyond the pain, and build a happy life on the other side of the affair.
To book your confidential intial consultation, call 604.859.9393 or send an email to email@example.com requesting a consultation for coaching.
Brian and Anne Bercht