Beyond Affairs Teleseminars

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June 18, 2013 - How to Heal a Marriage After an Affair
When Denis found out that his beautiful, devoted wife of 8 years was having an affair with his brother, he felt crushed with the heavy impact of double betrayal. It was more painful than he ever could've imagined, and he never imagined it could happen to them. It wasn't easy, but today, their marriage is stronger than before. Find out how they healed, and if they can heal, you can too!

April 25, 2013 - Help for Betrayed Wives - Part 2
Veronica is a homeschooling Christian mom with 6 children, Michele is a career woman with no children, Kathy's husband had a twelve year affair, and Roberta's husband's behavior is still oscillating. While their stories are still unfolding, find out how each has found peace and wisdom for the journey in their unique circumstances. These are not sugar-coated stories. This is real life affair recovery, and each woman shares because she wants to give back and help you!

April 24, 2013 - Help for Betrayed Wives - Part 1
4 betrayed wives- Cyndi, Peggy, Carol & Carmen - share their stories. Amazing!

April 23, 2013 - Hear from a couple where the wife had the affair!
2 couples honestly share their affair-healing journeys on this teleseminar. Find out why healing starts when the full truth is out, even though the one who had the affair is often reluctant to share the whole truth because they are concerned that it will hurt the betrayed partner too much. To really learn how to make it "safe" for the full truth to come out, we strongly recommend attending the "Healing From Affairs" intensive for couples.

April 15, 2013 - 3 couples share their stories!
Listen as 3 couples openly and honestly share their stories of healing their marriages. Hear from Donna & Pete, Kelly & Janie, Duane & Trish. This is one of the best teleseminars we've done! There are so many real and genuine insights for healing, that most couples will relate to.

March 21, 2013 - When there is a child from the affair
Listen to Anne's interview with Catriona Lightfoot about specific tools needed to heal from an affair, including a special discussion on healing when there is a child from the affair. Please note the tele seminar starts 1 minute 30 seconds into the recording.

March 6, 2013 - Help for Betrayed Wives
An affair can be debilitating. Most betrayed spouses feel as if their lives have become enshrouded in a black cloud of sadness that can never be lifted. They cannot imagine ever being happy again. This weeks teleseminar will be about getting your life back, about dispersing the dark cloud, about kicking the enemy's butt, about turning your tragedy into a triumph, and turning your mess into a message!

February 11, 2013 - Passionate Life Coaches Guy & Tammie share their personal story of healing
Highly rated. Guy & Tammie are honest, concise and clear about what it takes to heal. Great questions and answers too. We've received excellent feedback on how helpful this teleseminar is from those who listened live. Now you can listen too!

February 5, 2013 - Help for Betrayed Wives
This teleseminar is not just for betrayed wives, those who've had affairs will get answers too!
We interview Heather, a betrayed wife who also dealt with a child from the affair
Brian Bercht joins us for a view into the mind of those who have affairs
Are new vows, new rules helpful in recovery?
What if your husband won't honor appropriate boundaries with women?
Is it too much to ask your husband to participate in the healing with you?
How do I trust again, when the level of betrayal is so deep?
My husband had an affair, and said he didn't love me while having it, and now that its exposed claims he's in love with me? How can emotions change instantly?

January 30, 2013 - Healing Your Marriage After an Affair
How do I know if I should give my marriage a chance?
How do we discuss the painful details of the affair in a way that promotes healing?
How do I ask for what I need without throwing arrows at my spouse?
My spouse says I'm controlling. How should I handle this?
Tell me about the hurt the unfaithful feels. I don't understand this.
How do I get my spouse to reach out for help?
I'm the unfaithful and alone now. My spouse divorced me. Is there a seminar for me? To help me heal and become a better man?

September 22, 2012 - Q & A on Healing A Marriage After an Affair
Questions will include topics such as dealing with long-term affairs as well those instanceswhen the wife had the affair.

September 20, 2012 - How to Heal Your Marriage After an Affair
Brian and Anne host this seminar that explores the possibility of not only healing your marriage after an affair, but building a stronger and more fulfilling marriage on the other side.

August 25, 2012 - Take Your Life Back!
Have you ever wondered what the Take Your Life Back retreat was all about? This new teleseminar gives you the inside scoop on this life changing weekend. You will hear powerful testimonies from betrayed spouses who have attended this seminar and have come away with a whole new outlook on life. They have truly taken their lives back!

August 7, 2012 - Helping a Betrayed Spouse to Heal
In this teleseminar Guy & Tammie, a couple who has healed themselves and their marriage, share some of their story. Guy shares how the unfaithful spouse, if pursuing reconciliation, can help the betrayed spouse heal. Other discussion points are dealing with low self-esteem, blame, shame, healthy boundaries, and how to really learn from the pain and have the best life you can...is that even possible? Guy and Tammie give you hope, from a real couple's perspective, that yes it is! They share that getting tools, help and support are some of the keys!

This teleseminar is over an hour long with @ 40 minutes of q & a from others who are also dealing with infidelity. Guy and Tammie give answers on what worked from their past experience and brought
them to the incredible life and marriage they have today!

May 7, 2012 - For Couples who Desire to Heal their Marriage

March 13, 2012 - Healing for the Betrayed Spouse, 3 individuals share their journeys.

February 28, 2012 - Affair Recovery Q&A Session
- How do you stay on a positive path while healing?
- Do you need to know all the details of the affair to heal?
- What kind of questions should you be asking?
- Are some men just serial cheaters? (so there's no hope?)
- How do you get beyond the bitterness? (wanting my ex and his/her new lover to be miserable)
- How do you deal with friends & family?
- What do you tell your children? (who resent the unfaithful parent for the impact the affair has had)
- My unfaithful spouse says they don't know why they cheated. Is that possible?
- Why do people have affairs?
- How many lies are too many?
- How do you know if your unfaithful spouse is telling the truth?
- How do you tell your children? (young teens)
- Should you meet the OW/OM?
- Is the desire to look up the 3rd party on facebook a problem?
- How long does it take to forgive myself? (for being a fool)

February 9, 2012 - Listen Now! How Can the Betrayed Spouse Heal?

Jan. 25, 2012 Teleseminar - How to discuss the affair without damaging your relationship

Click here to listen to the Sept. 26, 2011 teleseminar
Questions covered:
Is it normal to forgive, but still have post traumatic stress symptoms?
What if your unfaithful spouse has had multiple affairs? Is there hope?
What if my spouse still has to work with their affair partner?
How do you know that your wife is sincere in wanting to reconcile? Actions, Words, or Gut feeling?
How do you know that he wants to be there with you?
Do the couples who stay together have the same love as before?
How does the love after compare to the love before?
How wrong or right am I in looking for my husband to assist me in healing from the affair?
My wife had the affair. We are now reconciling. How do I avoid making mistakes?
How is healing different when both spouses have had affairs?
How do you heal if the unfaithfulness is connected to sexual addiction?
Can a person have a physical affair and not be physically attracted to the affair partner?
In a healthy marriage, is each person entitled to "privacy" or "their life?"

Click here to listen to the July 14, 2011 teleseminar
Topic: 9 Keys to Healing a Marriage from an Affair
Hosts: Passionate Life Coaches Guy & Tammie.
Anne and Brian have developed and share the 9 keys to healing from an affair. Hear from another couple that also healed as individuals and as a couple. Allow their real-life experience to help you have the breakthrough and healing you are desperately desiring. Hear how to take those wounds and turn them into wisdom!"

Click here to listen to the May 11, 2011 Teleseminar
This teleseminar focuses on wisdom for betrayed spouses to heal. We discuss the Take Your Life Back retreat and 4 recent participants share their stories, and what has helped them to move forward in healing. One of our best teleseminars!

Click here to listen to the April 6, 2011 Teleseminar
An excellent, highly informative live question-answer session.

Click here to listen to the March 17, 2011 Teleseminar
6 Must-Know Keys to Affair Recovery - Part 1

Click here to listen to the March 23, 2011 Teleseminar
6 Must-Know Keys to Affair Recovery - Part 2

Click here to listen to the January 13, 2011 Teleseminar
BAN - Beyond Affairs Network. This teleseminar is for every person who is affected by affairs, whether you are a betrayed spouse, the spouse who had the affair, or a professional/support person assisting a couple or individual in healing. "This is one of the best teleseminars we've ever done! If you are looking for answers, please listen!!!" - Anne Bercht (The first few minutes of the teleseminar there is some static on the line. Just keep listening. It gets clear about 15 minutes into the call.) Please note! BAN is a support group ONLY FOR THE BETRAYED SPOUSE ... If a couple is working to restore their marriage after an affair, when the betrayed attends BAN, both spouses benefit.

Click here to listen to the December 14, 2010 teleseminar
Special teleseminar for friends and family members of someone who is currently dealing with an affair in their marriage. We were joined by a couple that healed their marriage after an affair, and the wife's parents. Both sides will share the challenges they faced, and the things they found helpful from both sides, as well as what may not have been helpful.

Click here to listen to the September 20, 2010 teleseminar
When the wife has had the affair ... What are the unique challenges these couples face?

Click here to listen to the September 2, 2010 Teleseminar
This teleseminar focuses on healing alone, when the marriage doesn't stay together. Not everyone chooses to heal their marriage, not everyone is given that choice to make in the first place, and sometimes staying in the marriage isn't the right choice, because the unfaithful spouse is not willing to do the necessary work on themselves. Coach Gayle, who was divorced after 35 years of marriage, and walked that journey of healing alone, shares how she did it. (Please overlook my mistake when opening the teleseminar when I say the topic is healing the marriage alone - it's not. It's healing alone. - Anne)

Click here to listen to the August 10, 2010 teleseminar
1. What is self-respect?
2. Dealing with workplace affairs ... how do you heal when your spouse is still working with their affair partner?
3. When I talk to my unfaithful spouse about my need to heal, he rolls his eyes and gets aggravated, telling me I need to just get over it. How do I get him to understand my needs in healing? How do I get him to participate with me in the healing journey?
4. My marriage has failed, but I still struggle with thoughts of desiring for it to be restored. How do I get beyond longing for my marriage to be restored ... hoping it will be one day? How do I deal with these thoughts?
5. Final important thoughts on healing.

Click here to listen to the July 2, 2010 teleseminar
Making decisions when you're between a rock and a hard place, and no option seems acceptable

Click here to listen to the June 23, 2010 teleseminar
- How can you know for sure if the affair is over?
- How can you trust again?
- How can you ever feel safe and secure again?

Click here to listen to the June 14, 2010 teleseminar
- Should you stay or should you go?
- setting healthy boundaries & giving ultimatums
- What do you do if the betrayed spouse wants to end the marriage, but the betrayer does not?

Click here to listen to the June 3, 2010 teleseminar

Click here to listen to the May 25, 2010 teleseminar
This call is discussing "Forgiving Yourself." This call will mostly be focused towards; how we as betrayed spouses might forgive ourselves. Do we even need to forgive ourselves? After all we didn't have the affair! Some betrayed spouses tell me they have a hard time forgiving themselves for not really confronting issues sooner.

Click here to listen to the May 17, 2010 teleseminar
Question/Answer session
1. What do you do when your unfaithful spouse won't admit anything & keeps lying?
2. Does the unfaithful spouse always morn the loss of the affair? Are they lying if they say the other person didn't mean anything to them?
3. How do you reconnect sexually? How do you get the mental images of your spouse with another person out of your head? Are you being compared to the other person? Wasn't the other person better, that my spouse would risk losing everything to be with them? How do you get past the sexual performance anxiety?
- And more ...

Click here to listen to the April 14, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Greg & Daphne share their story. She had the affair. This couple healed their relationship incredibly quickly. Find out the secret to their expedited healing. (It takes about 4 minutes for this call to get going. In the first 4 minutes there is a lot of static, which is corrected 4 minutes in. Feel free to fast forward slightly.)

Click here to listen to the March 23, 2010 teleseminar
Coach Gayle shares her story. After 35 years of marriage, her pastor/evangelist husband left her and married a younger woman. It was not an easy journey. Today she is 98% healed. Find out how her faith in God and many other things helped her heal, and can help you heal too. (It takes 4 minutes from start of recording for this teleseminar to get going.)

Click here to listen to the March 15, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Dan & Laura share their story. He took months after disclosure to end his affair. She followed her heart and hung on to their love, when everything else said quit. Find out how together they beat the odds.

Click here to listen to the March 3, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Tim & Julie share their story. He cheated with a friend of hers.

Click here to listen to the February 26, 2010 telesemiar
How do you motivate your husband to talk?

Click here to listen to the February 24, 2010 teleseminar
This is a Question/Answer session. All questions were from betrayed spouses. Many of them, their unfaithful spouses were not doing the right things to help heal the marriage, and some were working to heal alone.

Click here to listen to the February 23, 2010 teleseminar
Coaches Guy & Tammie share their story of how they healed their marriage after his
affair. Could a controlled separation be the right choice for you?

Click here to listen to the February 22, 2010 teleseminar
The topic of discussion is Tiger Woods confession

Click here to listen to the February 16, 2010 teleseminar
Questions addressed in this teleseminar include:
How do you love and respect yourself for staying?
How do you deal with repeat affairs and broken promises?
My spouse left their affair partner and moved back home. How come I don't feel better?
We are not dealing with our underlying issues. How do we get this turned around?
Does your spouse think of their affair partner, while having sex with you?
What do I do when my spouse says I just need to choose to "get over it?"
My spouse ended their affair and promised it will never happen again. Why do I still hurt?
Are lie detectors a good idea?
Is it true that once a cheater always a cheater?

Click here to listen to the November 10, 2009 teleseminar
This is one of our best teleseminars. It is 2 hours long and includes lots of interaction and relevant affair recovery questions from participants.

Click here to listen to the November 2, 2009 teleseminar
How do you know if there's hope for your marriage to heal?
(Please note: the teleseminar begins recording as soon as 2 or more participants have accessed the call. Sometimes this is before Anne & Brian have dialed in. This teleseminar takes a couple of minutes to get going. You may want to fast forward just slightly.)

Click here to listen to the October 29, 2009 teleseminar
How to talk to each other without causing further damage to your relationship
(Please note: the teleseminar begins recording as soon as 2 or more participants have accessed the call. Sometimes this is before Anne & Brian have dialed in. This teleseminar takes a couple of minutes to get going. You may want to fast forward just slightly.)

Click here to listen to the September 24, 2009 teleseminar
A Road Map for Recovery: For couples struggling to heal their marriage after an affair.
Hear from both sides! What are the needs of both the one who had the affair, and the one who has been injured?

Click here to listen to the July 30, 2009 teleseminar
On this call we discussed ways to deal with obsessive thoughts and triggers.

Click here to listen to the July 28, 2009 teleseminar
Listen to an interview of a couple where the unfaithful husband took a long time to give up contact with his affair partner, but still, in time, they were able to heal their marriage.
-Find out why it was so difficult for the husband to give up his affair
-What finally brought about the needed changes
-How did the wife cope

Click here to listen to the July 22, 2009 teleseminar
Listen to 2 couples candidly share their stories of how they healed,
when the wife was the one who had the affair.

Click here to listen to the June 30, 2009 teleseminar
This call focus's on helping the spouse who had the affair,
and is working towards healing the marriage.
What it takes for the one who had the affair to heal?
What are the struggles those who've had affairs face?
What can be done to move beyond those struggles?
What is the unfaithful's role and responsibility in healing?
What steps can the unfaithful spouse take toward healing the marriage?
Questions like: Will my spouse ever forgive me?

Click here to listen to the June 17, 2009 teleseminar
How can you separate or divorce with dignity?
How do you deal with an affair, if the betrayed spouse ends up with a life-threatening STD as a result?
Can you regain love for your unfaithful spouse if you don’t feel it anymore?
Why doesn’t my unfaithful spouse initiate conversations to help with healing the affair?
Should an affair be kept a secret and dealt with privately, or is this approach damaging for the relationship? When the unfaithful spouse says “I love you, I’m just not in love with you,” what's really going on?
Why is it more difficult to heal if the affair has been kept a secret for years?
How do you deal with your children during affair recovery?
How do you trust/rebuild trust again?
and more questions answered!

Listen to the May 27, 2009 teleseminar
Guy & Tammie talk about finding your own journey through your healing.
They also talk about how truth, time and separating the "person"
from the "behaviour" was their keys for healing.

Click here to listen to the April 21, 2009 teleseminar
2 couples, Tim & Diana, plus Tim & Julie, are interviewed by Brian and Anne. They candidly share their experiences - how they healed their marriages after an affair.

Listen to the January 22, 2009 teleseminar
Brian & Anne answer live questions!!

Listen to the January 20, 2009 teleseminar
Brian & Anne share the 9 Important Keys to Healing a Marriage After an Affair.

Listen to the Dec. 23 - 2008 teleseminar!
Hear from Jeff & Mary and Jack & Karen, couples who have attended the Healing From Affairs weekend in December 2008. Find out what they have to say about the weekend, and hear first hand some of the things they've learned through their own healing experiences, and what they wish they would've known and understood much sooner.

Listen to the Nov. 4 - 2008 teleseminar with Brian and Anne!
Two other couples also candidly share their experiences of healing their marriages after an affair. Also some excellent down to earth questions from people "in the trenches" of trying to heal after an affair. Real people. Real problems. Real answers. Listen Now!

Listen to the tele-seminar on how to heal from an affair - Oct. 22-2008
This call features Tim & Julie who are almost 100% healed from the affair in their marriage. Also Guy and Tammie share, who are 3 years beyond his affair. Learn about how to tell the truth, how much truth to tell, and when, and lots more.