Disclosure of an extramarital affair sends any marriage into a tailspin. It's devastating for everyone involved, from children and parents to friends and co-workers. The rippling negative effects include your job, physical health and finances.

Pulling out of this tailspin is one of the hardest things you'll ever do, and many couples never make it because they don't have proper guidance or the skills. It's especially difficult, because both spouses hurt tremendously, but in very different ways.

Our Healing From Affairs seminar is specifically designed for couples struggling to heal from the trauma of an affair.

If you're the betrayed spouse the pain is so intense, you often feel you cannot breathe. Just performing routine tasks, like driving kids to school, can feel insurmountable. You feel like you're losing your mind, you can't think straight, and you’re wracked with questions and feelings of disillusionment. It's impossible to begin making sound decisions and heal when you're in this state.

If you're the one who had the affair, you may feel confused. You may feel no one understands you or even cares to try. You're sorry for what you've done. You love your spouse. You're committed to your marriage.